As the holidays approach we look forward to visiting with family and friends, enjoying delicious food, attending office parties and getting caught up in the holiday spirit. Gifts are part of every holiday whether giving or receiving. When it comes to gifts for children parents at times feel conflicted. Watching a child open a gift brings a smile to everyone’s face.  The question sometimes arises, how much Lego and Barbies can one child own? Certainly that is an individual decision by each family. Yet, for some parents gift exchanging can be a nightmare. Piles of toys by relatives which are not needed, homes that can’t hold the multitude of stuff, and the pressure to reciprocate can be challenging.